Dear kimmy,
I recently broke up with my long time fiancee due to a third party problem. I am not very sure if I am right on doing that because my reasons for breaking up with him are baseless allegations and suspicions. I know he tried to be honest with me but I can feel that he is not any more honest. I am sure that as a girl, you do understand what I mean I say that you know when your boyfriend is lying. I am having a hard time adjusting now that he is gone. He still communicates with me a lot. What must I do?\
Jakie Rice
To You Jakie Rice,
I will start with saying that moving on is actually not moving off the pain and the comfort zone of a relationship. It is not like a switch that you can turn on or off at your convenience. Moving on is the complicated term for getting used to the thought that you are not together anymore. Together with that acceptance is the acceptance of all the pain and the memories. Now going with your break up issue, I guess you are right in doing it. I believe that in every relationship trust is the determining factor. In your case your loss of faith in both of you and the trust in his fidelity corrodes this bond. There is no sense anymore on trying to cling on a relationship where one is always doubtful.
Hindi masamang magduda ngnit hintayin muna nating may mabigat na patunay bago tayo pagapi sa mga dudang ito. Ang mga nagdududa ay mismong sa kakayahan at sarili nila nagdududa. Wala silang kumpiyansa kasi sila ay mga chaka. Forgive me for being rude pero totoo yun.. ang mga taong paranoid at nambibitang ay kalimitang sila ding gumagawa ng kabulastugan.
Ngayong Pasko malamig ang Pasko mo dahil sa kagagawan mo. Pero well atey ang tanong ko jan.. mahal mo ba boylet mo? mukha kasing hindi mo din gustong balikan pa siya.. or gwapo ba ang boylet mo kasi pakiramdam ko na mukha siyang kriminal na hindi katiwatiwala kaya may basehan angt pagdududa mo. Pakiramdam ko kasi sa sulat mo itsurang snatcher ang boylet mo na kailangang gumawa na ng masama kasi kahit walang ginawa ay unang paghihinalaan.
Payo ko sayo teh. Humingi ka kay Santa ng boylet na matino ngayong Pasko at hingan mo din ng matinong girlet ang ex mo.. Happy holidays mga tagasunod..
I recently broke up with my long time fiancee due to a third party problem. I am not very sure if I am right on doing that because my reasons for breaking up with him are baseless allegations and suspicions. I know he tried to be honest with me but I can feel that he is not any more honest. I am sure that as a girl, you do understand what I mean I say that you know when your boyfriend is lying. I am having a hard time adjusting now that he is gone. He still communicates with me a lot. What must I do?\
Jakie Rice
To You Jakie Rice,
I will start with saying that moving on is actually not moving off the pain and the comfort zone of a relationship. It is not like a switch that you can turn on or off at your convenience. Moving on is the complicated term for getting used to the thought that you are not together anymore. Together with that acceptance is the acceptance of all the pain and the memories. Now going with your break up issue, I guess you are right in doing it. I believe that in every relationship trust is the determining factor. In your case your loss of faith in both of you and the trust in his fidelity corrodes this bond. There is no sense anymore on trying to cling on a relationship where one is always doubtful.
Hindi masamang magduda ngnit hintayin muna nating may mabigat na patunay bago tayo pagapi sa mga dudang ito. Ang mga nagdududa ay mismong sa kakayahan at sarili nila nagdududa. Wala silang kumpiyansa kasi sila ay mga chaka. Forgive me for being rude pero totoo yun.. ang mga taong paranoid at nambibitang ay kalimitang sila ding gumagawa ng kabulastugan.
Ngayong Pasko malamig ang Pasko mo dahil sa kagagawan mo. Pero well atey ang tanong ko jan.. mahal mo ba boylet mo? mukha kasing hindi mo din gustong balikan pa siya.. or gwapo ba ang boylet mo kasi pakiramdam ko na mukha siyang kriminal na hindi katiwatiwala kaya may basehan angt pagdududa mo. Pakiramdam ko kasi sa sulat mo itsurang snatcher ang boylet mo na kailangang gumawa na ng masama kasi kahit walang ginawa ay unang paghihinalaan.
Payo ko sayo teh. Humingi ka kay Santa ng boylet na matino ngayong Pasko at hingan mo din ng matinong girlet ang ex mo.. Happy holidays mga tagasunod..
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